Communal Adventure

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I live on a quiet little street in North Potomac, MD.  Most of the time, this is an advantage.  Very few cars come by because we aren’t a thoroughfare to any other street.  The one disadvantage is that we usually are the last street in the county to get plowed when it snows.  This last monster storm left us in the wilderness from Friday until Tuesday afternoon…nary of car track to be seen.  I had the thought, a couple of times, to just go out there and use my snow shovel to clear the street but I thought I would surely kill or injure myself in the process.

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By Tuesday morning, I was getting cabin fever.  At 8:30 AM, I saw my neighbor using his SUV as a makeshift plow in a vain attempt to clear the street.  I went out to help him when his car got stuck and was joined by several neighbors.  Even though none of us would have considered clearing the whole street alone, when we were all together, we decided that we just might do it.  Everyone joined in and as a team, we cleared the entire street and helped each person get out if his or her driveway.  It took us over four hours.  It was exhausting and fun.  There was a lot of joking about changing our state name from Maryland to Little Minnesota. After it was done, one neighbor volunteered to take her SUV to the store for supplies.  Several of us rode with her and were able to stock up in preparation for the next storm (up to 20” predicted) expected that afternoon (where is global warming when you really need it?).

At one point, while we were huffing and puffing and resting on the handles of our shovels, we looked down the street and one of our neighbors had carved this beautiful white tiger out of snow and spray painted stripes on her.  We just stared in awe.  It was so beautiful (see above).

It was wonderful to engage in work for the common good and not just for our own benefit.  Several times it looked as if someone’s car was stuck too deep in the snow to dig out and yet we came up with creative solutions as needed to accomplish our task.  Old carpets and pieces of wood were used at one point to get traction while men women and children of all sizes pushed from behind.

I was left with this satisfying sense of accomplishment and connectedness that I hadn’t felt with my neighbors in many years.  It was remarkable how much snow we had moved in such a short period of time and how undaunted we were by the task that lay before us.  It made me wonder what we  as a nation (not just our congress) could accomplish if we took that attitude toward the huge problems we have before us.  What if we were more interested in reaching the goals of energy independence, affordable health care, affordable higher education, creating new jobs, repairing our infrastructure, cleaning up our air and water, supporting small businesses, etc. than we were in scoring points, looking out for our own special interests and defeating someone else’s efforts?

Sometimes it takes a task larger than our individual efforts to bring us around to working as a team for the highest good of all. In addition to the satisfaction borne of success, it also offers an access to creativity and innovation and a way to experience the best sense of community — a way to see ourselves as an integral part of the big picture.

I also see that a little communal effort goes a long way.  A neighbor across the street with whom I have only had a superficial relationship for 20 years, asked me the day after the “big dig” when I was going to try to get my car out onto the road.  I said I was going to venture out in about an hour or so.  Why was he asking?  He offered to come behind me with his SUV and shovel me out if I got stuck. Amazing.  I’m seeing him in a whole new light.

I’d love to hear your thoughts about any of the above ideas. I look forward to your comments.

-Jim

 




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14 Responses to “ Communal Adventure ”

  1. Thanks, Suzi. Evidently my story resonated with many other people’s experience this past week.

  2. oliver says:

    Yes!!!We all need to help each other.

  3. Lethia Owens says:

    “Collaboration is the fastest path to success.” -Lethia Owens

    Jim, I love this post. It reminds me just how much we can accomplish if we pool our resources.

  4. Andy Hughes says:

    When I shoveled out from this snow with family, I remember the feeling of comradery I had with my father when we cut wood for the furnace on our farm. We cut all our own fuel for Indiana winters for nearly 15 years, using only trees that had died naturally in the forest. Dad use to say, wood warms you twice, once when you cut and split it, and again when you burn it. Few things today are like cutting, splitting and stacking your own wood, and experiencing the direct benefit and sense of accomplishment… and warmth.

  5. Brilliant post, Jim. Our neighborhood, too, has come together in new ways of collaborating in light of the “snowpocalypse”. There’s nothing like a shared vision to create a background context of relationship.

    The photo of the sign in front of the church made me laugh out loud!

  6. Dr. Jim Goldstein says:

    Thanks, Andy. That’s a great image and must be a wonderful memory for you.

  7. Dr. Jim Goldstein says:

    Thanks, Lethia. I think we all know this but until we try it, we can forget how powerful it is to work together.

  8. Jim, it’s so great to see. When we lost power and had to stay with my parents, we saw a similar team approach taking place. 3 neighbors with snow blowers joined forces and banged out several driveways. It was really cool to watch this team in action (my uncle’s machine even had headlights ;) )

  9. Dr. Jim Goldstein says:

    I’ve heard from you and many others that their experience was similar to mine. Thank, Steve.

  10. Thanks, Ollie. Knowing you as I do, I am inspired by your willingness to pitch in to help your friends and neighbors. You are a blessing to us all.

  11. Tom Thayer says:

    Your story reminds me of the very last episode of The twilight Zone. It was in color and took place in New York. Alien craft were poised over the United Nations building and sent the message to members of the UN that because of the imbalance the earth’s humans had created in the solar system, they were going to destroy it in one hour. To show that they had the capability, they blasted one of the skyscrapers. One of the UN representatives begged for 24 hours to come up with a solution. At first the aliens refused. But after much dialog they relented. So all of the UN representatives met for 24 hours and came up with a bona fide plan for world peace. Rod Serling’s (the author of the Twilight Zone) final statement was: “If this could happen on the Twilight Zone, why would it not be possible in the real world.”

  12. Thanks, Tom. I remember that episode. I could see peace happening all over the world, as unlikely as it seems at present.

  13. Masoud says:

    See why I LOVE the snow. There’s a bit of magic in it. ;)

  14. I agree, Masoud. I felt it, too.

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