Comments on: Oh Baby, You KNOW What I Like! http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/oh-baby-you-know-what-i-like/ Dr. Jim Goldstein is a nationally recognized speaker, author and coach! Wed, 18 Jan 2012 18:12:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Dr. Jim Goldstein http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/oh-baby-you-know-what-i-like/comment-page-1/#comment-142 Dr. Jim Goldstein Sat, 13 Mar 2010 14:19:20 +0000 http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/?p=1924#comment-142 Thanks, Steve. Thanks, Steve.

]]> By: Steve Dorfman http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/oh-baby-you-know-what-i-like/comment-page-1/#comment-141 Steve Dorfman Thu, 11 Mar 2010 17:38:00 +0000 http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/?p=1924#comment-141 I like what you share on your blog, Jim ;) I like what you share on your blog, Jim ;)

]]> By: Dr. Jim Goldstein http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/oh-baby-you-know-what-i-like/comment-page-1/#comment-140 Dr. Jim Goldstein Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:36:18 +0000 http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/?p=1924#comment-140 Thanks, Andy. Good point. Part of effective communication is to be conscious of the boundaries and sensitivities of others and the context in which are speaking. Just spouting off what you like or don't like without any regard to the listener can get us into trouble. Thanks, Andy. Good point. Part of effective communication is to be conscious of the boundaries and sensitivities of others and the context in which are speaking. Just spouting off what you like or don’t like without any regard to the listener can get us into trouble.

]]> By: Andy Hughes http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/oh-baby-you-know-what-i-like/comment-page-1/#comment-138 Andy Hughes Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:04:39 +0000 http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/?p=1924#comment-138 Jim: Sorry for not thinking of this in my earlier post, but this also seems like dangerous territory in a relationship. What if what I like in some cases isn't what my partner is or does? Might they not be offended, disappointed, angry, that they were not like "What you like?" On the one hand, you say we should make our likes known to be happy, but aren't there times when such truth, even when only spoken in privacy would be offensive or hurtful? For example, if your wife said "I really like guys that are over 6'8 and weigh 280, they are so manly." would you feel comfortable with that? No hint of self doubt? Would you be thinking, "Then why did you marry me?" Could you reply to this? Jim:
Sorry for not thinking of this in my earlier post, but this also seems like dangerous territory in a relationship. What if what I like in some cases isn’t what my partner is or does? Might they not be offended, disappointed, angry, that they were not like “What you like?” On the one hand, you say we should make our likes known to be happy, but aren’t there times when such truth, even when only spoken in privacy would be offensive or hurtful? For example, if your wife said “I really like guys that are over 6’8 and weigh 280, they are so manly.” would you feel comfortable with that? No hint of self doubt? Would you be thinking, “Then why did you marry me?”

Could you reply to this?

]]> By: Andy Hughes http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/oh-baby-you-know-what-i-like/comment-page-1/#comment-137 Andy Hughes Tue, 09 Mar 2010 17:40:11 +0000 http://drjimgoldstein.com/site/?p=1924#comment-137 I remember this song well, and agree how fun it is. It has a kind of raw truth about it and a classic old rock beat. I never thought about the fact that he was really able to say what he liked and that was part of the power of the song. You can see it at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6TcC_ni0ojo Enjoy! andy I remember this song well, and agree how fun it is. It has a kind of raw truth about it and a classic old rock beat. I never thought about the fact that he was really able to say what he liked and that was part of the power of the song. You can see it at
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6TcC_ni0ojo

Enjoy!

andy

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